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How to Pray for Your Coworkers: Bringing God Into Your Work Relationships

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You know their coffee orders. You know which ones are always late to meetings and which ones never stop talking in them. You’ve celebrated their promotions and endured their bad days. Your coworkers aren’t just colleagues—they’re people God has placed in your daily orbit for a reason. And most of them will never set foot in your church. Which makes the office one of the most important mission fields you’ll ever occupy.

In This Article
  1. 1.Seeing Your Coworkers Through God’s Eyes
  2. 2.How to Pray for Specific Coworkers
  3. 3.Praying for the Difficult Ones
  4. 4.Frequently Asked Questions

Praying for your coworkers doesn’t require announcing it in the break room. It doesn’t require starting a workplace Bible study. It starts in the quiet—on your commute, at your desk before the day begins, in the pause between emails. And it changes everything. Not because it makes your coworkers easier to deal with (though it might), but because it changes how you see them.

Seeing Your Coworkers Through God’s Eyes

It’s easy to reduce people to their roles—the annoying manager, the lazy intern, the gossip in accounting. But each of your coworkers carries a story you probably don’t know. The one who’s always irritable might be going through a divorce. The one who overworks might be terrified of failure. The one who seems to have it all together might be falling apart at home. Prayer helps you see past the surface.

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.

Colossians 3:23 (NIV)

Working “for the Lord” doesn’t just mean doing your job well. It means treating the people around you the way Jesus would. And Jesus prayed for people—constantly, specifically, persistently. If He walked through your office, He wouldn’t just see employees. He’d see sheep without a shepherd. And He’d pray.

How to Pray for Specific Coworkers

You don’t need to know your coworkers’ deepest secrets to pray for them. Start with what you can observe. Who seems stressed? Who seems lonely? Who just got bad news? Who is making decisions that seem self-destructive? Bring what you see to God, and let Him fill in the gaps you can’t see.

  • For the stressed coworker: “God, give them peace that passes understanding. Lighten their load.”
  • For the difficult boss: “Lord, give them wisdom and soften their heart. Help me to respect them even when it’s hard.”
  • For the new employee: “Father, help them feel welcomed and valued. Use me to make their transition easier.”
  • For the one who’s hurting: “God, I don’t know what they’re going through, but You do. Draw near to them today.”
  • For the one who irritates you: “Lord, change my heart before I ask You to change theirs.”

Praying for the Difficult Ones

Let’s be honest: some coworkers are hard to pray for. The one who takes credit for your work. The one who gossips about everyone. The one whose negativity poisons every meeting. Praying for these people isn’t about becoming a doormat—it’s about refusing to let resentment take root in your heart. You can set boundaries and still pray blessings. You can advocate for yourself and still intercede for the person who wronged you.

Often, the people who are hardest to work with are the ones who need prayer the most. Hurt people hurt people. When you pray for a difficult coworker, you’re not excusing their behavior. You’re asking God to heal whatever is driving it. That’s not weakness. That’s spiritual warfare at its most practical.

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Challenge: Pick three coworkers this week and pray for each one by name every morning before work. Don’t tell them. Just pray. At the end of the week, notice whether your attitude toward them has shifted—even slightly.

Frequently Asked Questions

Should I tell my coworkers I’m praying for them?
It depends on the relationship and the context. If a coworker shares a struggle and you say, “I’ll be praying for you,” most people—even non-religious ones—receive that warmly. But unsolicited declarations of prayer can feel performative or preachy. Let the Holy Spirit guide the moment. Often, the most powerful prayers for coworkers are the ones they never know about.
How do I pray for a coworker who is hostile to faith?
Pray for them the same way you’d pray for anyone: for their wellbeing, their family, their peace. You don’t need to pray that they “get saved” in a way that feels transactional. Pray that they encounter God’s love in a way that makes sense to them. Pray that their hostility would soften over time. And pray for yourself—that your life would be a quiet witness that makes them curious rather than defensive.
What if my workplace feels toxic? How do I pray then?
A toxic workplace needs prayer more than anywhere else. Pray for the culture to shift. Pray for leaders to gain self-awareness. Pray for protection over your own mental and spiritual health. And pray for discernment about whether God is calling you to stay and be salt and light—or whether it’s time to move on. Both are valid. God sometimes calls people to endure difficult environments, and He sometimes calls them to leave.

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